Patriarchy isn’t the dominant force some men think it is especially when it comes to relationships with successful and confident women.
When I listen to some of my girlfriends the Bridget Jones syndrome seems to dominate their perspective on life and relations, to the extent they don’t ‘exist’ unless they have a man by their side.
And when I say ‘have’, I don’t mean have in the contemporary colloquial sense. This idea of having, refers to shagging men’s brain’s out. No what I mean is, they have to have a man in order to give them an identity, to make them a whole person. Severe the man and the woman die’s metaphorically.
Now I in contrast, made a decision long ago to resurrect myself from any relationship fall-out with a strategic shift in my relationships. I got fed up from the after shocks which follow the discovery of your man’s infidelity.
It’s all the apologies, incessant visits from Interflora, texts, phone calls and other excuses for their penile indiscretions which I have found tends to rain down after a man chooses to start shagging someone else while in a long-standing relationship.
Come on girls, we all know where men’s brain are and we also know they’d happily shag anything with a hole. Coarse of me I know, but at the same time true! They promise the world just so they can glide their smooth hands down deep into your pants. They can be such charmers when. We all know it’s not just their eyes that bulge when they get a glance of your pantie lace and talk about persistence. It’s a better they weren’t so committed to screwing up the fixtures and fittings.
But with a career and life to manage who needs all this fall-out, not me, but every so often I need a shag, so that’s where married men come in. You can detect them a mile off; their wanton gaze quietly scanning the bar or club for a reciprocal interest, with a timidity that’s unique to their situation.
You beckon them over and they’re yours for the evening’s entertainment. No, I don’t mean getting straight down to it, you’re a lady. Exchange mobile phone numbers, and meet them during the day for coffee, weigh them up and down and watch them hanging on your every word. Then the decision becomes yours. And that’s the best part plus I’ll be honest their eagerness means they taste better too.
You can use them to meet your sexual needs because they think they’re using you. You can call them up and ask them to do to you what you want them to. You’re in so much control they literally are putty in your hands. The best bit is you can say not tonight and there’s nothing they can do! They’ll never let you down but if they do drop them straight away knowing there’s a million more just waiting for your matriarchal smile! Read my smile!
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April 23, 2008 at 5:00 pm |
This makes me sad.
April 24, 2008 at 9:43 am |
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June 19, 2008 at 4:19 am |
Somehow i missed the point. Probably lost in translation
Anyway … nice blog to visit.
cheers, Relaxant.